Being
obese or even fat is not easy these days, along with the part of being
overweight you also need to have a thick skin to bear the comments and
the snide remarks people throw at you. Now imagine being morbidly
overweight at 206 kilos and being in the limelight, the negative
comments just come up in heaps and your weight issues are out in the
open for everyone else to see…
But this
article is not that, it is about fighting all odds and grabbing the
second chance that life hands out to you, it is about what fierce
determination and unflinching familial support can do to you- that is
make impossible not quite unreachable……
That is
the story of singer, composer, child prodigy- Adnan Sami whose voice and
whose musical ability had the whole of the Bollywood asking for more.
His all time hits include ‘Kabhi toh nazar milao’ A R Rahman’s ‘Udi,
udi, udi’ as well as the hummable ‘thodi toh lift kara de.’ But along
with the accolades, it was his weight which got a lot of attention from
the media. And when Adnan emerged fitter, slicker and minus 130 kilos,
the world wanted to know how he managed to do it. With radical diet
changes, dedicated time off work, he has managed to pull it off in just
one year. We share Adnan’s amazing story with you to inspire us all to
be a healthier version of our selves…Adnan
was going through personal crisis for years now and this cycle for
reaching out to food for comfort and then getting depressed thus eating
more, resulted in him weighing more than 206 kilos at that time.
His now heavy body had a huge impact on his health,
Walking- Adnan
had to use a walker to help him get around. He says that he couldn’t
walk 5 steps at a time without resting. His knees, unable to bear
the weight of the body gave up. In 2005 his knees developed Lymhedema
or fluid retention in the knees which required a surgery and had him
bedridden for almost 3 months.
Sleeping- Because
of his increasing weight Adnan couldn’t breathe in the lying down
position. When he did lie down he needed pillows to help him stretch
his legs and needed help getting in and out of his bed. Due to extra
fat in his body, whenever he lied down the fat pushed into his lungs
causing sleep apnea which robbed him of restful sleep. Finally he had to
be content in resting on the sofa; but his blood vessels had trouble
pumping the blood back to the heart and he suffered from fluid retention
in his legs.
Travelling- Being
a Singer, Adnan had plenty of travelling in his schedule but his
enormous weight made him constantly anxious about his travels. He needed
to carry a custom made wheelchair in the airports; he needed to book
flights which could provide extra large seats and in restaurants he made
sure they arranged for a large enough seat for him.
Clothes- Adnan
always faced the difficulty of finding clothes that fit him. Whenever he
found his size 6X abroad he would buy them in bulk because they were
difficult to find at home. So he ended up having most of his clothes
tailored, but to his embarrassment even the tailor needed two tapes to
measure his body!
Tipping point
Even
though it was clear to everyone else that he needed to do something
about his self, Adnan was not quite ready to make the changes until a
doctor’s ominous prediction. The doctor told Adnan that unless he does
something about his weight, he has only 6 months to live. This time,
Adnan had to take the verdict seriously because deep down he knew that
his body was giving up.
Resolve
There were many other instances when
Adnan earlier had been to a nutritionist or a doctor and couldn’t find
the courage to make the kind of change that is required. Finally when he
was about to quit and give up and resign to his fate, it was his father
who shook him and said ‘enough is enough’. Adnan’s father gave him an
ultimatum that unless Adnan devotes 6 months of his life to regaining
his health or he would walk out of his life.
Finally Adnan negotiated the time to 3
months of ‘no work and only weight loss’ and moved to Houston and
handed himself over to a nutritionist.
Examining the relation with food
Everyone had a different relation to
food. Adnan’s nutritionist studied his reaction to food and found that
Adnan had the habit of emotional eating, whenever he was either happy or
sad, he ate. All his emotions were deeply connected to food and
depression due to his weight only increased his dependence on food for
comfort. Further, his metabolism weight being sluggish did not help his
case.
Adnan points out that everyone who
sees an overweight person just assumes that he or she is so because the
person is too lazy or careless. His opinion is that there are genes,
emotional issues and metabolism rates that all have a stake in the
weight. He says, “People look down upon obese individuals and make fun
of them. You don't make fun of a person's physical disability - if
they’re handicapped, blind, short, tall; it's not their fault. This is
also true for obesity.”
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